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The case for doing less, badly

Slow living6 min read

Most rest routines fail because they are designed by the same part of you that made the schedule. A short argument for lowering the bar until something sticks.

The optimisation trap

People arrive at the studio with impressive plans. A 5am start, twenty minutes of breathwork, cold water, a walk before email. The plan is usually abandoned within a fortnight, and the abandonment is taken as evidence of a character flaw rather than a design flaw.

It is a design flaw. The plan was written by the same part of you that overcommitted in the first place — the part that treats rest as another performance with a standard to meet.

Lower the bar until it holds

The practices that survive are almost embarrassingly small. Three slow breaths before opening a laptop. Standing outside for the length of one cup of tea. Putting the phone in another room while you eat.

None of these will appear on a list of protocols. All of them will still be happening in six months, which is the only measure that matters. A practice you do imperfectly for a year outperforms a perfect one you do for nine days.

What to try this week

Pick one moment that already exists in your day — the kettle boiling, the commute, the walk from the car — and do nothing else during it. Do not add anything to your day. Subtract from a moment already in it.

If it feels too easy, that is the correct amount of easy. Difficulty is not the ingredient that makes rest work.

Written for the Cove website template. This is fictional demo content and is not health advice.

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